Jumping into what ScarletBea was saying about the pressures of reading loads of book each month, & this feeling like you were being excluded by other members because of it,
I was a pretty regular member quite a few years back, but no one (except maybe Elfy) seemed to read the same things I did, so there was no actual conversations I could really join.
I’d start a thread about something not Grimdark or SciFi, get no responses & I eventually stopped coming here cos it was upsetting that no one wanted to talk to me.